Have you tried online dating on adult sites?
I know internet dating may sound a little lame STILL, but we’re now at an age where meeting someone online is generally accepted as not only for geeks is real people use it.
Yes, I’m talking about real hot women also use it as well.
So that has led me to write this article about online dating specifically for adult sites.
I know there are a lot of guys out there who just are not interested in relationships – that’s perfectly fine. Maybe their lifestyle or life stage at the moment just doesn’t allow them to develop a good long term loving relationship.
But they still want to meet women and have sex in the meantime.
So what does a guy have to do in order to fill their sexual desires whilst not spending a lot of time forever wasting their time at clubs and bars where the situation and environment does NOT work in their favor?
Go on online dating sites where women are actively looking for sexual partners and are not hung up with emotional issues about it.
That’s probably the single biggest selling point for adult online dating.
The women there are looking for sex.
Sign me up I hear you say!?
But have you ever paused for a moment to think about what are the disadvantages?
Well, here are the main disadvantages to online dating at adult sites:
1. If you sign up for a free account only you may be bombarded with fake messages. Since it’s not a secret that online dating sites make money when you PAY for their membership, most of them lure you in by giving you a “FREE ACCOUNT” so you can check out the sexy girls on the sites and see what’s out there. Most of the time this is what happens. Since you’re restricted by most adult dating sites from sending messages to other members, you’re going to be unable to respond back to women who message you. So what a lot of sites do this is. They use fake profiles with sexy women to contact and bombard FREE members with invitations for sex… so you’ll be thinking “oh this is great, I have 10 sexy girls wanting to have sex with me and I just signed up”.
But since you’re not able to respond to their messages as a free member, you quickly upgrade your membership to the paid status. Then you start messaging all these sexy girls back, but for some reason or another NONE of them turn out to be a real sexual experience and in the end you just end up turning to internet porn.
2. The photos are sexy as hell, but when you actually meet her it’s another story. Since we live in the digital age, it’s amazing what a few touch ups with Photoshop can do with a person’s profile picture. Imagine this, you sent out 100 messages to girls over the past week and the response rate is less than you like, however there’s one girl that seems to fit your criteria and she seems to be keen for sex. So you arrange to meet up with her. When you arrive, you see a girl that kind of resembles the profile picture of the girl you saw online, but is 10 times less attractive… so what do you do now? Do you end up settling or do you think to yourself “hmm… I should have done some better quality control”.
3. You don’t even get a real response – at all. This is probably the most common problem guys face online. They just don’t know how to stand out from the rest of the crowd and get responses from women who are both attractive and hot and ready for sex. They don’t know what kind of message to send to girls to get their interest and even if a girl is interested, and checks out the profile of the guy, they see a lame profile that is either boring or creepy as hell and scares them away…